Midweek Mention... Four Weddings and a Funeral

This week, the Dads dust off their morning suits and dive into Richard Curtis’ runaway hit Four Weddings and a Funeral. Mike Newell’s rom-com was the film that turned Hugh Grant into floppy-haired royalty, introduced us to Andie MacDowell’s enigmatic Carrie, and made swearing at alarm clocks a national pastime.
We talk through all four weddings (and, yes, the funeral), unpacking:
- Hugh Grant’s career-defining “stammering English gent” routine.
- Andie MacDowell’s aloof American elegance — and the film’s messy romance plot.
- Simon Callow’s scene-stealing turn and the surprisingly poignant funeral sequence.
- Rowan Atkinson’s gloriously bungled first wedding gig as Father Gerald.
- Whether Richard Curtis’ world of posh English eccentrics really reflects Britain… or just what Americans want us to be.
We also get into how the film became the highest-grossing British movie of its day, launched Hugh Grant’s tabloid-fuelled celebrity arc, and why it still works (even if “Love Actually” does not).
Expect swearing, and the usual Bad Dads blend of dodgy impressions, film geekery, and questionable life lessons.
👉 Join us as we relive the weddings, mourn the funeral, and ask the only real question that matters: is Four Weddings still worth an RSVP?
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Until next time, we remain...
Bad Dads
Four Weddings
Sidey: Four weddings and just the one funeral.
Dan: Yeah.
I hadn't
seen this in a time,
Sidey: I hadn't seen this.
Dan: You've never seen
Sidey: I have now.
Dan: Well,
Cris: you were, you were groaning
Dan: when I mentioned this. You
Cris: were Oh, like,
Dan: as if this was gonna be absolute torture.
The worst thing you've
Cris: ever seen.
Reegs: you not vibe with Richard Curtis?
Sidey: No, it's the sort of floppy head, sort of
doofus,
character. Well,
Reegs: Well, and it came out absolutely full form in this one as well.
Sidey: Yeah, this is like the archetype, prototype and it's also got that song
Cris: Yeah, but only right
Dan: the end with
Cris: credits.
Sidey: Yeah. When It came. Oh
this fucking shot.
Cris: yeah,
Dan: you heard it a million times. Every played every day when this film came out and it stayed in the wet, wet wets lovers all around.
Reegs: oh yeah. That was the
Dan: Yeah. It was
Sidey: Marty Pello,
Reegs: I feel it in my
Cris: fingers.
Sidey: I did know that it starts off with just a load of swearing. 'cause the alarm clocks we see,
Cris: fuck
Sidey: the characters.
Alarms, clocks go up, they get up [00:01:00] and go. they're getting dressed.
these different
apart from Hug Grant who? snoozes and then he wakes up and fuck it goes through to his flatmate. Fuck. And they just, fuck.
bug, bug, bug goes like going down the road in the, mini.
Dan: Good old English swearing. It's bugger and fuck. And it was
Cris: directed by Mike Newell. Yeah,
Sidey: After he played for Blackburn,
Cris: Yeah. This is what I was thinking.
Dan: He had a good career at Blackburn and then obviously he turned his,
Cris: his hand brother
Sidey: of Roderick. Of course,
Dan: course, of course. And
it was written by Richard Curtis, which is the reason I wanted to see this film. It come, I was watching awards
like.
Ceremonies and people accepting
Cris: speeches and things on YouTube, rabbit hole, whatever. And he came
Dan: on and he
Cris: talked
Dan: he was introduced by huge Grant who said he's an absolute asshole, this guy. And I can't believe he was the only one who didn't want me to
Cris: get
Dan: job when Four Weddings. He said, you know, the, the director loved me, the producers
Cris: loved me.
Dan: The, the money men liked me.
But.[00:02:00]
Cris: The writer was an absolute ars asshole, and
Dan: it's he who we're welcoming today and
Cris: greeting.
Dan: And then he gave a speech and it was, he did
Cris: like tons of work for Red Nose Day and thing.
Dan: And I thought, oh, well, you know, it's
Cris: worth seeing four weddings again.
Dan: And, and
Cris: and so when you groaned and said. I thought you'd seen this and was already hating on it. Okay, so
Sidey: I probably seen clips of it and various bits and bobs, but it's sort of done out in, in chapters based on the wedding invites and stuff, isn't it?
So The first one. It's God, I can't even remember whose wedding it is. The first one.
anyway,
There is a wedding.
Cris: there is, lemme go
Dan: my notes.
Sidey: He's the best man at it and it's this, we get the whole saga of him getting there 'cause he is late and they have to bomb it down. The motorway in their shitty old mini.
They get there, it gets to the front where the guys are just, it's all just about to happen. I said, sorry I'm late. And he's like, don't worry about it. You know, as long as you didn't forget the rings. And he's like, fuck
Cris: fuck an [00:03:00] Angus and Laura. That's
Dan: Yeah. And, and so he has forgotten the rings and he's
Cris: kind of mouthing to the congregation in behind
Dan: Ring as their singing
you know, a classic England churchy theme song.
Cris: I
Sidey: think it was this
Reegs: one. Him.
Sidey: even sing. Jerusalem in
Dan: it. Yeah. At
Sidey: At one point they sing Jerusalem I mean, it couldn't be getting more fucking
Reegs: Quaint.
Cris: Yeah, no, absolutely. And his, his flatmate
Dan: Scarlet, who is,
Cris: you know, she's practically got
Dan: pineapples in her head and
Cris: Yeah.
Sidey: like the Phoebe Buffet, you know,
Reegs: Manny
Sidey: proxy.
Cris: Yeah. So she's
Dan: got this kind of huge plastic
Sidey: Like costume jewelry,
Cris: costume jewelry. And somebody else has got like a, it's like a deaf
Sidey: hell's Angel like scuffing.
Dan: they're the two
Cris: rings that get
Dan: on the fingers
Cris: Of Angus and Laura. But they all have a, a great day. And there's lots of witty conversation in between.
Well,
Sidey: Well, we get to meet them, you know, we get to meet all the, all the group. We've got the, the gay couple Simon Callow and John Hannah's. lot. Yeah. [00:04:00] And we see that Simon Callow's, like the. Like the sort of scholar of the group, but he's also, he likes to fuck around and cause me his chief and he's, but he is obviously very,
Reegs: he likes, he likes a few drugs as well, doesn't he?
Sidey: Just, just a lot of smoking and drinking.
Dan: Yeah. I mean, you see
Cris: him frying up a huge, greasy breakfast right
Sidey: bit foreshadowing.
Reegs: Heart attack basically.
Cris: Yeah. He's
assu of the group really, isn't he? Yeah. He just like zero fucks. He's just laughs at all the inappropriate jokes and everything. Makes
Sidey: You've got Kristen Scott Thomas's character. She's like a bit bitchy. She's super glamorous and her brother is a moron. He's like the nice but dim sort of character. She slags off the bride as She's walking down the aisle. Someone said, Oh, she looks so lovely. She's like, don't be stupid. She looks like a
Dan: Are you fucking blind? Yeah.
Cris: All the kind of, all the kind of things that do actually get said at weddings and
They're
Dan: you know, they're, they're having, they're having a laugh. They, you can see they're a tight knit bunch who none of them are married as well. So they find it very easy to poke fun at those that are getting married and making that commitment
do,
Cris: it. [00:05:00]
Sidey: The wedding does happen and we get the guy with the mustache who you've seen in other things.
Dan: Yeah.
Sidey: He hits off with, Is it Lydia?
Cris: Yeah. Bernard and Lydia.
Sidey: and also Hugh Grant. He's gonna meet Andy McDowell.
Cris: Yeah. Because Lydia is,
Dan: is the bridesmaid. And towards the end
Sidey: she's, she's getting annoyed 'cause she hasn't had an
Cris: for a second.
Oh, I can't believe that. And he goes, well,
Dan: I.
Cris: bad. Don't be
ridiculous. next time you
Dan: pans down to them, they're snogging. And they're, they're just made
Cris: for each other. Yeah. It,
Dan: seems. But that will be the next wedding,
Cris: but yeah, the thunderbolt is hit. Um, Charles
Sidey: Carrie.
Dan: Yeah. He's seen this amazing beautiful American lady
Reegs: I remember her looking so elegant. Yeah. In
Sidey: this it compliments her hat
Reegs: and like she's got that real angular beauty.
Cris: Yeah, she is, she's stunning.
Dan: she
looks really hot and
Reegs: and she's a bit of loof as well, isn't she?
Dan: A little bit but witty with him. She [00:06:00] takes him. Everybody likes her.
Cris: you know,
Sidey: He's told though that she only likes like a certain type of bloke, like a, a rich man or an, or a powerful important man or something like that. Yeah. So he is not, oh, a bit like that. He does his best man's speech where he sort of
bumble his way through and it's sort of quite
They're all laughing. And then they do actually hit it off.
He, he, she's staying at the pub. He decides to leave and then goes back.
Cris: It is funny when he sits down and he goes, oh, hi, I am Charles. And the guy next
Dan: to him goes, don't be ridiculous. Charles died years ago. And he goes, I'm a
Cris: different Charles. And he goes,
brother,
Sidey: Okay,
Dan: he's in trouble. That's, that's who he sat next to now for the rest of the evening and everything. and he has a few we go to the, so he
Cris: has this, ends up going back to a party, but getting
Dan: out of the car before getting to the party
Cris: because, Carrie
Dan: is staying at the same hotel as as he was. And he goes back there and manages to [00:07:00] steal her away from a weirdo who's getting absolutely leathered in the.
Cris: in the room downstairs on whiskey, doesn't he?
And,
Sidey: have snack.
Dan: they, have Well, you know, you, you see him shoot. First of all, he's on top of her, then she's on top of him. That, no, you don't see
Cris: any of
Dan: those kind
Sidey: It's very taly
Dan: It's tastefully done. There's ducks, I think in or
Cris: birds flying.
Sidey: They have a sort of conversation, but he doesn't tell because he's love that straight away.
Yeah. He's just totally He doesn't have the courage to tell. her. It's almost seems a bit, maybe a bit too much. But she's American, and so she's gonna leave unless you do something and he doesn't.
Dan: He doesn't. No,
Reegs: he just lets her
Cris: And it isn't until three months later the wedding of Bernard and Lydia, these
Sidey: they rushed this, through,
Dan: Yeah,
Cris: mean in
Reegs: months. So they just got together at the previous one and then they get married three months.
Good for the plot though.
Dan: Good. Good for the plot. And they're, they're both kind of
Sidey: fuck. Bugger, bugger. They're late again. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
It's
Reegs: Is this where he's living with? 'cause there's two Hughes in this one, isn't he? He, 'cause he lives with Hugh
Sidey: No, he lives with Scarlet.
Reegs: Got it. Oh, right. But
Hugh Bonneville is in this
Cris: he [00:08:00] is in this, yeah. There's, it's a bit of who, who
Reegs: with him, does he?
Cris: Don't think so. No. In this no. Everybody's, everybody's
Dan: quite
you know,
Sidey: he gets punched obviously at the end. But no, this one, the the wedding's going on and it's much, you know, much the same, you know, wedding, blah, blah, blah.
Until he sees, fuck me, Carrie's here again.
Yeah.
And he's immediately like, oh, he says to his friends, this is great.
Dan: Brilliant. Hold this. Don't go back to America. Gets her drinks and everything. And she introduced him to Hamish, her fiance.
Reegs: Her fiance. Oh
Sidey: Ouch.
Dan: Yeah. Ouch. Town. He's just like Resfall. He can't believe it. He's, he's everybody's, you know, he's questioning his life choices now.
Everybody's getting married. What am I doing? There's a, a
Cris: ex-girlfriend.
Sidey: The one they call Duck
Dan: Yeah. Who's,
Sidey: She's just a real brat.
She's
Cris: real fucking, Yeah. She's still
in love with him and
Dan: he's just
Cris: trying to, move her on
and
Reegs: She went on to be in teachers, didn't she? The,
Dan: I think she did, yeah.
Cris: Or But they're yeah, they [00:09:00] kind of just balls up their, their moments again,
Dan: although
Cris: he does end up
Dan: going, Hamish has
Cris: to leave. There's one scene and
Sidey: significantly older than her as well.
Cris: Yeah, he's getting a bit of grief, isn't he?
He just can't, he seems to, he's got caught saying duck faced about the girlfriend and she's gone
Dan: off the ex-girlfriend, she's gone off in tears.
His friends are all just
Cris: and having a laugh, and he's not in
Dan: mood, so he goes into a room to get away from it all and he looks through the window and he sees. Carrie and Hamish
Cris: leaving early.
Dan: And then the wedding
Cris: couple come in
Dan: and they start fucking on the bed. And
Cris: he, he does, he doesn't, he gets stuck in the room and he's, he's in like a cupboard. And he waits until they're
Reegs: finished.
Dan: It's
Cris: like, and then they go, should
Dan: do it once more again? Like, you
Cris: know? And he's like, I can't do it.
Dan: he
Cris: just
Dan: out
Cris: of the cupboard, like, with a pen. I found it. He got, I found it. And they're like, what the fuck? Yeah. And then actually
Dan: Carrie has come back.
She's just dropped Hamish to the airport and she's come back and they [00:10:00] go off again for
Cris: well
Sidey: she cheats on our
Cris: the second, the second one nightstand.
Yeah.
Sidey: She invites him up for a drink and he says, oh, I dunno. She goes, it's just a drink. You know? I, I think I can resist you You're not that good looking. And then it was like in the morning and they've obviously fucked. Yeah. You like you fucking cheat on your fiance you'll, you'll toe rag. Yeah.
Cris: Yeah.
Sidey: The next wedding.
Cris: Is her own,
isn't it?
Sidey: gonna be Carrie and Hamish. Yeah.
Reegs: yeah.
Dan: As
Cris: they go through in this,
Dan: he's kind of shaking all their hands and Hamish just doesn't shake his hand at all, does he? He just kind of blanks him and he's obviously not, you know, he's, he's aware Yeah.
That that's a, an old flame or who the fucks him get
Cris: invited
Dan: guy. But that he's, he's super rich. Hamish,
Cris: he's got this huge estate and everything,
Sidey: I think they're not, say he's an MP or something.
Cris: Yeah, he's, he's super, yeah. He's powerful
Dan: and rich and, he's got everything going for him apart from his age and, but he's got this trophy wife now who's very intelligent and beautiful.
Reegs: Is she an artist or something
Dan: Uh, she works for Vogue Magazine. That's right.
Cris: Yeah, [00:11:00] she's,
Sidey: Gareth
Simon. Ow he's having a great time in particular at this wedding 'cause he's just going around like taking the
piss out all the angst without them realizing that he's taking the piss outta them. Okay. Stood clever for them. And he is really enjoying it. then we get to the, the speeches and unusually at this one.
Carrie stands up to make a speech and she does that 'cause her father has died. Many years ago. And so she wants to make a speech, look like he might, might have made. And she talks about, you know, thanks for staying even though there's all these Yanks here. And the camera then quite fixes on Hugh Grant Charlie's reaction to it.
But next to him as well. You've also got Gareth. He's smoking I think, and he is just there
and he's sort of fidgeting around a bit, but really you kind of, most of the time you're just watching. Hugh Grant just being like dead miserable 'cause the bird that he loves, has just got married and then all of a sudden no, actually she finishes her speech and Hamish gets up to talk and then it goes quiet and Gareth collapses and knocks a big silver
platter over.
and he says, oh, is there some some rockus at the back there? [00:12:00] And the rest of him, it's all kind of goes a bit slow motion, where they, they drag him into the next room and they, they find a doctor there. But they
sort of
Cris: pronounce it
Sidey: lay his head down. and You realize he has died and he has to go through the the congregation then to grab his other half.
And explain to him like what's the middle of the wedding, that it's all gone Fucking Pete to, Yeah.
Reegs: dear.
Dan: We, we have missed a couple of the wedding best man speeches before that for
Cris: Bernard and Lydia. That was fun. Wasn't
Dan: Goes
Cris: Because he says oh, there was It
was lovely when
Dan: he, Bernard, finally married Lydia because all his other such girlfriends were
Cris: dogs, many of whom I see here today.
And it is lovely that, you know, so he is digging 'em out. He's just clueless. The, the guy he's super rich though. He is like the eighth, richest person. No, I think we might be seven for eight. You know, he's complete. Complete off really?
Reegs: Have we had the Rowan Atkinson bit as
Sidey: he's the second, he's the
second wedding. He's the second wedding
Cris: wedding priest.
Friend of the
Sidey: it all up. Yeah.
Dan: The Holy Goat.
Reegs: Does all his malapropisms,
doesn't
Cris: it? yeah.
But yeah, this is
is
Dan: for the funeral,
Cris: which is quite [00:13:00] emotional,
Dan: as he goes
Cris: through.
and
Matthew, few words
Dan: very good friend and everything, because it's all.
back
Cris: in the day where.
completely out
Dan: to everyone apart from close friends and things, and, and for all intents and purposes they say, look,
you know, they
Cris: were married. Those two
Dan: we said that, you know, none
of us got married. But
Cris: those
Dan: really were. And
Reegs: yeah, well before gay marriage was a
Cris: Yeah.
Dan: And, and they, you know, it is quite a, quite a sad and
Cris: poignant.
Sidey: He says, oh, I, I phoned around and a few to find out what what people remembered of him. And A lot of people said fat. Yeah.
Dan: Yeah,
Cris: fat.
Sidey: Rude. But a lot of people phoned me to tell me what they thought and you know, it's quite touching and he reads, some,
some poetry.
Yeah.
Everyone's very sad.
and at this point I was picking up the vibe. I dunno if it had been been, I was just oblivious. But Fiona, Kristen, Scotch Thomas. It became obvious to me now [00:14:00] that she had a thing for Charlie.
Cris: Yeah. And
Dan: she says as, as kind of time's running out and these kind, you know, it's always been you, I've always loved you. It's unrequited love that he's feeling in some way, shape or form with Carrie, that she's gone
Cris: off with someone else and they're,
Dan: they're both feeling that angst of love,
Cris: I guess.
Sidey: because she comes to the funeral.
Cris: Yeah.
Sidey: Yeah. Carrie. So they,
Dan: just a month after her. Wedding.
Cris: But yeah it's a few months later.
It's
Dan: Tom
meets a girl, doesn't he?
Cris: Charles and Henrietta's wedding,
that wedding they go on because they, I think it is Charles getting married then, isn't
the one that Grant. He finally, you see him walking down the aisle, he's realized.
Dan: I've got,
Cris: And he's gone back to duck face. He's gone back
Dan: HEN
Cris: And they're getting married.
Sidey: well yeah, 'cause you, you get the shot of the invite as in like this is chapter Yeah. Five, or whatever. And it says Charles and, and then the [00:15:00] flowers are covering.
Cris: Yeah, that's right.
Sidey: girl's name you dunno who it is. And then it's obviously him getting married and they still, they the four, of the, his
A group
of friends, they're on a bench and they're having a chat but none of them mentioned the name.
It's really keeping you in suspense. Who's it gonna be?
Cris: But
Reegs: realistically you're thinking who it
Sidey: well, it can't be Carrie. No.
Reegs: make any
Dan: Just think, well, yeah.
Cris: is it? Have,
Reegs: if we had, we haven't had the, in the words of David Carradine in the Rain, is that right at the
Dan: Right In
Sidey: no. But he has told her that he loved her. Yeah. He's, I
Reegs: he's already
Sidey: before she's
Reegs: q granted his way through
Cris: But when
Sidey: she's engaged, he has said to her, then he says in the words Of
Reegs: David Garine, all that.
Yeah.
Dan: Yeah. Yeah.
Sidey: so she knows. And then she's, later on, she says, it was nice to hear that. And he's like, oh, okay.
But yeah, he's, he's sort of uming and ing Well, no, he's not. He's, he's dead happy. 'cause he's sort of want, he's tired of, he's actually explicitly said he is tired of being, you know, a guest at the wedding. He wants to get married and sort of move on with his life.
Then we see the flowers, and then the flowers get put on the girl's head and it's dark [00:16:00] face.
Yeah. And she's being a megabit to everyone.
Dan: Yeah.
Reegs: and this is clearly not a good idea, right?
Cris: It's, well, he's, he's you know, a little bit nervous
Dan: and when Carrie turns up and says, actually, she's separated for the last few months. He says, why didn't
you
let me know? You know, why didn't you say anything?
And she was like, well, you know, I just was in a bad place. I wanted to get myself sorted.
wanted to
come now and
Cris: you all the best,
Sidey: the best idea is to, turn on your wedding,
Cris: on your wedding day.
Dan: And, and so yeah, he's
Cris: just
bugger, bugger, bugger b you know, in the back room.
Sidey: He's having serious doubts now, and he's, he's got John Hanna there.
He's saying, well,
are you gonna do this or not? Because as long as you, you know, you marry the person that. You love with your whole heart? I think he says. Yeah.
Cris: Yeah. And his brother, deaf. Yeah.
Dan: He's the one that
Cris: ends
Reegs: he makes quite racy comments, doesn't he?
That
Sidey: he
says about
Reegs: else can understand.
Cris: Yeah. Yeah.
Sidey: He
is like, it's very hilly
Reegs: Yeah, that's,
Dan: and it,
Cris: it,
Dan: he [00:17:00] kind of knocks on the,
Cris: on the door or the
Dan: pew
Cris: when asked is any man
Sidey: well, he says, he says, behind the scenes, he says, there's, there's three, three ways you could play.
this. He says, first of all you just go through with it. Yeah. If you love her, second of all, you go out there and say, sorry folks, this isn't happening.
Yeah. And he go, and then he comes like, what's the third one? He goes, I can't think of the third.
But then when he knocks on the, he, he, he goes, I have thought of the third one. He is doing it all through sign.
And he's, and Hugh Grant's, then translating what he's saying.
Cris: think the groom is not in love with the bride and.
Reegs: Oh yeah, he
Dan: And
Cris: like this, anyway it,
Dan: it,
it results
Cris: in a punch in the face for Hugh Grant by the,
Sidey: well, there's a sort of, there's a joke that's been set up earlier. 'cause when he is seeing Carrie, she says, all you gotta do is just say, I do. When someone asks you any questions,
Cris: is it true? Do you not? Do you love someone else, do you?
Dan: he goes, I do.
Cris: And then he gets
Sidey: dark face, comes in with a great big right cross and chins [00:18:00] him.
Cris: He gets floored and takes it. He's got
Dan: big bruise under the eye. He's feeling terrible. It's pissing down with rain. He's in the flat back at his house with his friends who are saying, yeah, well you should feel terrible.
His brother's saying,
Cris: I feel terrible. And he says,
Dan: well, yeah, everyone is blaming you actually. 'cause he can't hear anything like, you know.
Cris: So,
Dan: it, there's,
Cris: there's still a few laughs, but he's, you can see
Dan: in his face.
Cris: that's just a whole, he said, poor,
Dan: I can't believe I've done
Cris: it to her. Like literally I've
Dan: made her walk through the, down the
Reegs: Yeah.
Cris: Yeah.
Dan: in front of all her
Sidey: Yeah. But even walking down the aisle, she's a bitch to her dad. She's like,
eh, don't
Cris: you've done that so tight. You figured, fuck,
Dan: you know, he's,
Cris: he's lucky
Sidey: it's dodged bullet there, but the doorbell rings and he thinks it's gonna be her duck face. So he goes like, look, I've got a face of music here. Or maybe her dad or something, you know, so he goes out I know it's, it's Carrie and McDowell.
Fucking soaked through 'cause it's pissing down.
Cris: Some guy with a hose over there. Yeah.
Sidey: they, they have their, their moment and he Does all his bumbling, sort of very posh.
Cris: We could,
you promise not to marry me if we could spend a [00:19:00] long time together
Dan: not being married and blah, blah, blah,
Sidey: And then they're struck by lightning and killed.
Cris: Yeah.
And it goes through photographs of all the weddings to come and the
Sidey: first one I think is duck face is married straight away to someone
Dan: She's straight away
Cris: married to
someone else. I told
Sidey: I think
Cris: Scarlet's married to an American that she met who's like, just six foot eight
Reegs: eight. She was the quirky one,
Cris: Yeah, she was the quirky one is a happy ending all way around.
Sidey: their
Cris: Nervous all around.
Sidey: got a kid.
Cris: Yes.
Reegs: Who? Andy McDowell. And all right.
Cris: the
Dan: So they've all settled
Reegs: down, but
have they got married?
Sidey: It doesn't say,
Dan: doesn't
Reegs: say so. We'll
Sidey: I assume so, but
Cris: maybe. all maybe. Yeah.
Sidey: And weddings
Dan: too.
Sidey: John Hannah's character had, had,
Cris: Yeah. He's found someone else as role. Also
Reegs: found love
Sidey: Yeah.
Cris: having laughs.
So,
You know, it's, for me, it held up. I watched this first time around. I think the writing's brilliant. I think the characters,
Dan: I can see why it's so popular.
Then
Cris: I can see why it's
Reegs: it was a sensation as well, isn't it?
I went to the
Sidey: It was, it was The highest [00:20:00] grossing British film ever.
Cris: Yeah,
Reegs: what it was or is
Sidey: was, I dunno what's overtaken it, but it was, yeah,
Reegs: it was enormous. I, I saw it at the cinema. It had a massive impact in America, didn't
it?
Sidey: So that, this is my. Still my bug bear with it.
Not, it's not really a bug bear, but this is what I think Americans think English people are like.
Reegs: Yeah.
Cris: Yeah. And
No.
Reegs: They're much more likely to be sort of fat skinheads painting the George Cross over a kebab shop.
But,
Sidey: Yeah.
Dan: But, but not in this film. It
was very typically British how we would like to be portrayed by the American George. The Americans like to see us portrayed anyway. And Hugh Grant duds that fantastically, he's played on it for a career. And he's got better and better for me. Hugh Grant, I mean he's,
Sidey: I think he gives zero facts these
Cris: Yeah. I think
Reegs: his career has been on such an interesting trajectory. We'll probably get into it when we talk our top five Hughes,
Sidey: but was it the premier of this that he turned up with Elizabeth [00:21:00] Hurley and she had the
Cris: Yeah,
Sidey: the safety pin dress. Is that the one? Yeah.
And then not, not long after that.
He fucked
Reegs: Divine Brown. was,
Sidey: From Divine Brown. in The back of a car or something.
Reegs: and then the Levinson inquiry and all sorts of stuff. Yeah. We can probably, we'll talk about it in our top five Hughes. No
Dan: Yeah. But.
Cris: but
Dan: Really enjoyed it. What, what did you
Cris: think
Dan: is the
Cris: first time of it? I
Sidey: No, I did, I did, enjoy It Yeah,
Reegs: good,
writing.
And good acting is, you know, even if I, I,
Cris: I, I
Reegs: went less down. Like I didn't love all of the Richard Curtis
Sidey: stuff. No, I don't.
Reegs: It like was diminishing returns for me. But this was
Sidey: really
What's that Christmas one? Everyone loves
Reegs: love. Actually
Sidey: Fuck that.
Reegs: that one's terrible, I think. But people really love it.
Dan: They still, yeah, it still just gets people in the fields, but not quite like your first time.
Sidey: This is just like a slice of posh English people. It's just not really real, but it's well acted and well written and it's funny
Dan: and it's got some good lines. Yeah. Check out if You
Cris: strong recommended.
Reegs: how many weddings were there in
it?
Cris: Four.
Sidey: and one funeral.
What do you call him, [00:22:00] The writer,
Cris: Richie?
Sidey: Yeah, he
Dan: he did
Cris: loads of stuff.
Sidey: got the idea for it. 'cause he worked out that he'd been to 65 weddings in an 11 year period.
That would've been a longer film. 65 weddings.
Yeah.
And a dozen funerals. Yeah. Yeah. But I I agree with you, dad. It's a strong Recommend.